How to Dress for a Winter Wedding as a Guest

Juan is getting married, your cousin Pedro invites you to his wedding, your boss invites you to his son’s wedding… Winter doesn’t reduce the number of weddings and ceremonies. The only thing that changes is the outfits.

The time to dress for a winter wedding is approaching, which can be quite the challenge. Knowing the rules of the game allows us to maintain masculine elegance without compromising our comfort. In this guide, we will break down key styling tips to help you or any winter wedding guest find the ideal winter wedding look. We’ll cover classic ceremonies as well as more modern occasions, even outdoor ones. As for labels in store, Canali men's suits, Prada men's suits and Gucci men's suits offer a great deal of silhouettes for men in both classic and modern shapes. 

The morning suit for winter weddings, a timeless classic

More classic winter weddings outfits tend to call for a morning suit, the quintessential look for formal events inherited from Britain. If the invitation indicates said dress code (it’s important to stick to the dress code set by the couple), choose a black or grey jacket and pair it with pinstripe grey and even black trousers. To respect the colour palette of the ensemble, we recommend choosing a light-coloured waistcoat, such as pearl grey or beige. Complete the look with an elegant men’s tie or a pocket square and cufflinks, which will give you that personal touch while respecting traditional protocol.

Formal shoes for men are a key point here, central to constructing any more formal winter wedding look. Pro tip: opt for black leather Oxfords or dark Derbys. In our store, brands like Church’s and Tod’s offer options that combine extensive artisanal tradition with a style that suits this type of event.

What is a semi-formal suit for men? A new uniform for weddings.

If the wedding has a slightly more relaxed dress code, the so-called Lounge Suit or semi-formal two-piece suit is a perfect option. It allows you to introduce personal touches without abandoning formality altogether. In winter, we recommend choosing flannel or wool suits, which offer an ideal touch of warmth for the colder weather and can always be replaced by something lighter or removed altogether at the party. Colours like dark grey, brown, and navy blue work very well for the season, projecting a sophisticated, wintery image that wouldn’t be as fitting for summer weddings.

To complete your look, pair the suit with a classic white shirt, or a light-coloured one, and a silk tie that adds a modern touch, as well as dark leather formal shoes. Remember, monk strap shoes, such as those by Church's, or loafers, are the ideal option.

The black-tie suit for men

When the wedding takes place in the evening and extends into a dinner, the black-tie suit is a perfect option. Here, a dark velvet jacket and a bold pocket square can add an extra sophisticated touch. A common question is whether or not to wear a Tuxedo jacket. In this case, always check the invitation or ask the couple directly.

The recommended formal shoes for this style are dark Derby or monk strap shoes in shiny leather. To add your personal touch (something we always encourage at OTTODISANPIETRO), remember to add cufflinks and a bow tie in tones that harmonise with the jacket, ensuring a look that suits the occasion.

Fabrics: a key consideration

For winter weddings outfits, wool is a key fabric. It’s important to know that cold-weather wool suits exist for those who find regular wool too warm. The thicker fabrics typical of winter are much more in tune with the aesthetic of winter weddings, and in their thicker form, are ideal for staying warm.

In winter, dark tones are generally preferred for their added sophistication and alignment with nature's colours. Shades like navy blue, dark grey, graphite, or brown are perfect for a men’s winter wedding look. For countryside weddings, you can opt for autumnal colours for winter, adjusting the fabric to the weather and seasonal tones. In urban settings, a grey suit and tie can be much more appropriate.

If the wedding is held outdoors, or the weather is particularly harsh, don’t forget to bring a wool overcoat (much more formal) in neutral tones to wear over the suit if needed.

Day and night

The time of day heavily influences the expected dress code (unless stated otherwise). Daytime weddings allow for more freedom in colour and fabric choices, while evening weddings call for darker tones and a more formal aesthetic.

It’s always recommended to add an elegant tie to complete the look, regardless of the time. For more formal weddings, where you would wear a black-tie suit for men or a tuxedo, consider a black bow tie or one in a tone that complements your look. Winter wedding guest outfits for men, such as those for groomsmen, are more sophisticated and include standout accessories like pocket squares.

Formal shoes for men at weddings

Undoubtedly, a good pair (or two) of men's formal shoes will serve you well for many weddings and ceremonies throughout your life. The most suitable footwear for a classic style is Oxford or Derby shoes in dark tones, paired with the suit. Monk strap shoes or loafers are an alternative for less formal weddings, but it’s always a good idea to consult with the organisers or the couple to confirm whether they’re appropriate.

Church's shoes are the best-selling choice for such occasions, worn by historical figures during their most important moments and a worthwhile investment in formal men's footwear that will last decades in your wardrobe.